Parents as Coaches | Transforming Family Relationships

Our Experience

Is your family caught up in never ending battles? Are you experiencing conflict, distress, disrespect, and defiance? Are you experiencing frustration, anxiety, disrespect, contempt or even an abusive relationship with your child? Are you fatigued, mentally and physically, from this conflict? Have you used every tool that you have; yelling, screaming, silence, punishments, ultimatums, pleading, and all other tactics that you can think of? They don't work Those skills are what you will learn from the Parents as Coaches: The Family Transformation Program™ If so, you've come to the right place for real solutions for real family problems!

I've had every behavior that you or your family is experiencing- I was the kid with oppositional defiant behavior, behavior issues and I was the pain in the a$$- Why? I was a nice kid, smart, and funny- but I had no life skills to use to deal with the complexities of my life! My wife's has experienced four different mothers (including the death of one) had biological and adoptive fathers and has navigated incredibly complex adult family issues. She has worked with others to help them through these issues and has a wealth of practical knowledge for dealing with families, blended families, and children of all ages.I survived it, she survived it and you will too! You will learn how to equip your kids with the life skills that they need to deal with life in a way that is productive, healthy, and removes the shouting, pouting, and slamming doors!

We not only survived but my wife and I developed a program specifically to help families change their lives. When you're having a tough day remember that I and many others have changed from the dysfunctional coping methods we learned and displayed that causes parents pain and grief. My wife also has her degree in psychology and has gone through a life that has experienced adoption, death, step-parenting, and much, much more more.  I lived these issues, she has lived these issues, we both experienced childhood and adult divorces and yet today we've created a wonderful family and more importantly for you, we can help you to do the same! We know how to solve these issues and we know how to help you change the dynamics in your family, Today!

We have over 40+ combined years experience in the field of psychology and personal development.  But more than that, I've lived the life of the defiant teen. I was the teen who was so poorly equipped with life skills that my only two tools for dealing with the world were acting out or withdrawing completely.  Does either of these two extremes seem like it will create a balanced and healthy life? Do either of these seem familiar to you?

Over the last 20 years we have focused on developing the "life-skills" approach to working with children and teens who just seem to defy and contradict everything you are trying to do. We will show you how you may be unconsciously contributing to those same issues and how you can change, causing your children to react to you differently and with respect. It doesn't matter if these behaviors come from a child or teen. My and my wifes understanding of family dynamics have produced concrete, positive change, and will in your life too. Parents as Coaches: The Family Transformation Program™ is the answer to your prayers!

It's not just having the academic degrees that count (both Nicole and I have a Psy M. degrees in psychology). It's the experience we have in finding what works! Are you sick and tired of the family experience of conflict, drama, and stress on an everyday basis? Don't live that way any longer!  We have seen or dealt with it all-- from being the defiant teen to raising teens. With our Life-Skills approach you will turn your relationship around, fast! They will earn to be accountable for their actions, both positive and negative and the dynamics will change!

We are not talking about the normal experience of a child having a bad day. We are talking about a life-style filled with conflict. There are two factors contributing to this stress. First, whatever method you are using is ineffective--the results speak for themselves. Next, your child is incapable with the skills they presently have to handle the situations that they are faced with in a positive manner. This program will teach you new ways to handle the same situations that are presently causing you grief while helping your child develop the life-skills necessary to deal with life.

Think about how much pain you and your family are already experiencing? How much will you spend every month on car payments, health insurance, food, utilities?  How much have you spent on therapy?  How much stress are you going to continue to allowing your life? We've seen it all! Try the program FREE for 30 days! Watch your family life improve from the first day. You will be amazed at the changes that take place in your children's behavior!